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Karen Swallow Prior's avatar

Mel, thank you for sharing this behind-the-scenes look. I had no idea about these kinds of details. However, this is kind of what I suspected was the case. It breaks my heart and angers me all at once. Imagine being a painter and being told to develop your craft and sell your paintings you had to join a group of thousands and post painting content and memes of paintings…it’s bizarre. But this is what is being “sold” to many and I think you are exactly right that it is a pyramid scheme.

I think there a number of reasons for that emptiness and lack of significance many who do unseen work (like lots of women) but one reason is that we tell them the way to be significant is to be a celebrity or influence. What a lie. (Also, it’s not all that great, haha!).

And another thing (I have so much to say!): there’s a saying somewhere about the church—that what brings them there is what will keep them, meaning the bait and switch doesn’t work. The groups you describe remind me of that truism: if you build a vast audience of meme-likers, then you have a large audience of meme-likers… (I like memes, don’t get me wrong, haha!)

Anyway, I thank you again for sharing this experience. It’s very instructive and insightful. I’m sorry you learned some hard things along the way. But we all do, don’t we?

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Karen, I posted this article you wrote for TGC on my "platform" about a week ago. It is truly excellent, and it stings. I'm a believer that growth comes from pain, and this particular topic is painful for me because the woman you are talking about is me.

I want to offer a behind-the-scenes perspective on platform building. In 2017, I was one of those "restless housewives" who needed something to do. Out of my passion and desire to be a Christian speaker and out of the need to get back in the Word, I began a Facebook platform devoted to short devotional videos. I then discovered I could boost my followers by writing for an online publication for mommy writers. So I did. When my article was selected, I was invited to join a private group on Facebook of "writers" tailored to mommy bloggers. When I joined, I discovered 1,000 other women just like me.

We were all coached to "build" a platform and push content. We were told that to grow our platforms, we should post at least three forms of content each day, most of which we make ourselves. If we had big platforms, when we shared content from the online publication, their platform would grow, and it has. The mommy blog platform I wrote for now has over 1 million followers and is a money-maker. As I write this, it feels like a pyramid scheme. We were told that if we wanted to get a book deal (most women did, but this was not my goal) or speaking engagements, our platform had to be significant for a publisher to sniff at us. This is when the frenzy for many of us began.

I began creating Christian memes and pushing content. Eventually, I noticed what gets "likes" and "shares." So, I began to tailor my posts to fit the audience, whether the topic was a conviction of mine or not. There was a feeling of one-upmanship—which of us would elicit the best emotional response and get the most "shares"? Moreover, 1,000 women were doing the same thing, so the market was saturated. Much of the content became a watered-down version of Christianity, with few theological truths and much "self-help." As you can imagine, it emptied the soul tank, and though I was doing a lot of "creating," my creativity was strangled.

You are right when you say that our "platforms" are the body of work we have already done, yet so many women are being told and coached to do the exact opposite. Some women have posted on private writers' pages that their publisher requires them to have a significant online presence. They have to prove they have the support of other people with large platforms to guarantee their book will be shared across social media. One woman had to calculate her reach for her publisher. She had to project how many people she could reach with her book if all of us who committed to promoting it would do so. While I see the reasoning behind making a writer do all that work, it feels wrong. From this, a group of women who desired to publish a book committed to sharing each other's writing to build their platforms strong enough to be enticing to a publisher. That created people not sharing each other's work out of conviction or because it is quality, but out of necessity. It feels icky.

We were told, "If you build it, they will come," and the money will be there, too. However, I have some online friends with followers in the 100,000s who barely make a dime. They live on the hope and prayer that their book deal will come through. As for me, God convicted my heart, and I changed what I do on my platform. I get only a few monthly followers and LOVE what I'm doing now. It's a blessing, not a curse.

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